My initial reaction was to laugh when a Year 11 student said to me this week, "Sir, you're like the father I didn't know I needed".
But then I thought about it a few days later when I was reading a chapter from Star Wars and Philosophy Strikes Back. The essay was about filial piety and Anakin's fictional father/son relationship with Luke.
The authors on this filial piety: Parental figures typically serve as 'ready-made' exemplars since children typically admire their parents - if their parents exhibit noble and loving characteristics.
So, I guess for some students, teachers may be considered parental surrogates.
We often point to good role models amongst the student population, but maybe we seldon reflect on the role modelling that we present to our students.
While a student myself I had a full range of male role models. There were the sarcastic teachers I didn't like, the ones I was never sure about where I stood, the kindly uncle types (i.e. they were only a few years older than me), and the older gentlemen - many of whom seemed quite aloof.
Father figures though? Not that I can recall.
Hence being taken aback somewhat when the student made that comment. Because of my references to the Pirate Code, I can kind of see where that feeling might come from.
It provides a structure, a moral code and a clear set of consequences that is noble in intent, and I care enough to enforce it. Maybe that's missing from the lives of some students.